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Sivani is a young adult, who is starting her career and went through deep thinking about why she is the way she is, the only thing that she heard from her childhood was being perfect. Having the perfect body, perfect score in every subject, and good qualities like winning every competition. At least she thought it was.

 


 

But whenever she failed to attain those, she was a failure. She never had a perfect body, she was overweight. never had a good score, never understood any subject but went and completed graduation. never won a single competition in school but participated. Is that a failure? no, it was just she listening to every voice that said what she has to do every day. It made her lazier, hopeless, and most importantly dependent.

For every decision she makes and every work she does, she is dependent, on her brain and others. She realized during my graduation, that she always wanted to become a writer or some communication-related job, She loves to talk and she loves to hear about people and their stories. So she never paid attention to what this campus placement training is taking place. But as per the situation at home, job is mandatory to run at least half part of it. So she tried to learn but coding was not her cup of tea. She never understood why that logic was like that and why you print stars in patterns. (Note: I am not opposing/making fun of coding. It is a great subject and I respect it, which most of the world is running on, my brain just didn’t get trained enough for it).

Her family thought she was a normal girl who was just hoping to find a job and then she would get married and look after her life and that’s life. And again the cycle repeats. But it didn’t happen that way, when she was in her third year corona came, and everything we had to prepare from home only. All these years everything was being done and taken care of by her parents. Them making her do nothing except study study study made her a perfect A+ girl behavior and The girl who is mature and knows what to do.

When everybody was struggling with Corona and being at home and not being able to understand what was happening around she started my job search because in her home if the job was not there every day it would be a slave day. You wake up do all the home chores, eat, again do the chores, again clean and organize home, again do the chores sleep and repeat. This happens in every home but she always felt like life was more than this. and yes it is more than this, it is more than doing this multi-tasking, knowing that everybody doesn’t eat a similar kind of food. Doesn’t like to do the same kind of work. No life is more than this, so she started feeling depressed because this was not what she wanted to do. but she was forced to do so. So what will happen? nothing she locked herself up. She was locked and she didn’t show any interest in doing any kind of work. Is that fine? No.

Now her family started understanding her. They never saw her this way, so the thought that she was selfish and being only about herself started but I always was like this right, She never did anything on her own, never went anywhere on her own, never decided on her own on what she had to wear.

For this girl who never did anything on her own, how will she know that she is ready for marriage when she gets a job? When she protests that she is not ready, then she becomes imperfect. Everybody saw her like she was making a mistake and she was not mature. But she realized that she doesn’t know anything not even what she wants to do with her life or what she wants in her life.

 






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